tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35650510.post6687853192190979990..comments2024-02-24T19:30:31.240-05:00Comments on Aut-2B-Home in Carolina: Authoritative ParentingUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35650510.post-3913844536449194662009-03-03T23:31:00.000-05:002009-03-03T23:31:00.000-05:00Isn't it something how our children with autism ca...Isn't it something how our children with autism can react in noncompliance when they are being forced into doing something? My daughter is that way too. I have to find creative ways to get her to do things sometimes...and sometimes I just plain ol' say "you have to do this. There is no other way." Then she usually complies.<BR/><BR/>Thank you so much for all of your posts. You are like an internet- homeschool-mom to me (mine passed away 5 years ago) guiding and walking along! The way you rearranged your blog is very helpful to a new follower like me who is not aware of what you have posted in the past.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08804685660416486940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35650510.post-19423805328625410792007-11-12T09:07:00.000-05:002007-11-12T09:07:00.000-05:00Wow, Please keep posting. This is feeding my soul ...Wow, Please keep posting. This is feeding my soul so much. Tammy, I have been doing what you write about with my son and I can testify to you that -CM ways with what little bits of RDI I do- have helped bring my son back from an overwhelmed child to my sweet son. I do not regret pulling my son from school! You have been an answer to prayer. Thank you. Sincerely, DianeG.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35650510.post-66574358234789069212007-11-11T19:33:00.000-05:002007-11-11T19:33:00.000-05:00CM's point #1 reminds me of 'limit setting' and ho...CM's point #1 reminds me of 'limit setting' and how limits must not just be capricious and arbitrary, but yet must be enforced and respected by all parties<BR/>CM's point #2 reminds me of 'trustworthiness' and how both the guide and the guided must earn the trust of one another and must work together to repair the relationship with that trust/trustworthiness is compromised (which it inevitably will be, because none of us is perfect).<BR/>The horror of behavioralism is the lack of trust and respect between the two parties, leading to increased distance and separation. The beauty of guided participation is the mutual trust and respect leading to growth for both, individually and together.JamBerryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10100173458111104820noreply@blogger.com